It's the only time we see everyone happy despite of hardships, tragedy and sadness plus it's the best time to start talking about day 1 before I get carried away. Enjoy!
Talking to strangers has always been my thing but I've never done it intentionally. I can ask for directions and open a group but that's all there is. Starting a conversation or going into an actual conversation freaks me out. I don't like the idea of being in control and making small talk with anyone.
My First Style Life Challenge: I need to start a conversation with 5 random strangers.
I was thinking, How I could I F*****g pull this off, without screwing it up?! I was ultimately scared but instead of letting fear stop me I sucked it up and fought through it.
I started thinking of possible openers, writing it down on my cellphone and watching videos on YOUTUBE. Good thing I chanced upon this video that gave me a awesome idea. You should watch it first.
Amazing right! The magic formula is "ask for directions + describe the place/event you'll be going to=instant open". Thank God to whoever posted this video, I will shower you with my kisses and love.(Now that's Gay!)
Luckily that day I was going to a place that I was not familiar with and my family was there to watch the flying circus, so I used it to my advantage.
Here's the structure that I created:
Me:Sir, Paano ako punta Mall Of Asia galing dito?( Sir, How do I get to Mall of Asia from here? )
Stanger: DAdadadadadada...
then I would follow up with,
Me: Manunuod kasi ako ng "Flying Circus" kasama family ko, bonding namin for Christmas. Kayo ba saan nag-Christmas Family mu?( I would be watching the "Flying Circus" with my Family, it would be our bonding time this Christmas. How about you where did your family go?)
Stranger: DAdadadadadada...
This line worked like magic. It was so amazing, I was able to talk to 7 people. I'm really glad I actually did this, I'm so excited for day 2. I'm outta here Bitches!
Photo by henrywongsays
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